The movie Weird Science is apparently about two boys who attempt to create a woman. This is a microcosm of the patriarchal attitude toward women that sees them as objects, in this case objects to be manufactured. Other patriarchal themes and narratives I’ve noticed:
- Women are the downfall of men. They are men’s downfall because they seduce them, break their hearts, trap them with pregnancy (this one is the most ridiculous of all), castrate them and trap them into domestic life.
- Women are natural sex objects, intrinsically sexual and seductive, thus all women are fair game. The best metaphor is of woman as a container containing ’sex’. This comes from a projection of men’s sexual desire onto women.
That’s all I can think of for now. What I want is for radical feminist themes to make their way into culture, so we have narratives like these to counteract the above:
- Women are oppressed and restricted in a myriad of ways, and whatever they do it is their way of coping with a system that ‘castrates’ them. This includes controlling some aspects of men’s lives, as a way to defend themselves, as women are also threatened and harmed by men in often subtle ways. Their dealings with men are confused and antagonistic, and many women face the dilemma of ’sleeping with the enemy’ (which I conveniently solved by becoming a dyke!
). They tend to care more about their self-preservation and dignity than enslaving the male gender, which they have neither the ability nor the willingness to achieve.
- Pregnancy and menstruation are wrought with problems worsened by their occurrence in a patriarchal system. It is not easy to go through puberty, and women are not glorified flowers who bloomed by some natural law, but machines pieced together in a haphazard manner, dealing with dilemmas and painful experiences as a normal part of life, and that are specific to their gender. There is a filthy aspect to female sexuality and the female body, alongside the beautiful aspect.
- Domestic life is more trapping for women than it is for men.
- Women have some masculine characteristics as well, even the ones who aren’t butch or tomboys.
But all of these come down to one thing: women are primarily human, and secondarily women. This is not a scientific or a philosophical statement, but a useful paradigm shift that, if adopted, will have desirable consequences. It’s a tool, rather than a fact. Start thinking in terms of women’s humanity rather than her woman-ness, and your whole world will change.
In a culture the best way to achieve the inclusion of these themes is to let women tell the story. The more we have access to their subjectivity, the less the patriarchy will be a problem, I think.